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Im currently attending college and I Ihave two credit card debts whichare both 500
so total of 1000
I have aphone bill which got cut off and I owe 300.oo
This happened when I moved to school my job I transfered to didnt put me on the schedule for a while so I had gotten behind payments.My credit is now messed up
when I went to go apply for a loan they told me I didnt qualify niether did my mom
My dad wont help me and my granma cant either.Well now I have a new job but they only give me like 2 days and i only make 100 dollars.
Now i have to pay 400 for my tuition and housing if i stop school and work Iwont have aplace to live
if I dont pay i can get kicked out
I was thinking about going into the navy as my last resort but i honestly dont believe the military is for me
adn I have the chance to go to auditions and use my talents but im afraid it wont get me buy I dont know what to do help please
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I was looking for a house to buy. A friend had a house for sale that seemed pretty nice and the friend was struggling financially. We worked it out that I would try to buy the house for a certain price to keep my friend from getting into further financial trouble. The price was below what he owed so I had to work it out with the bank. In the meantime to help him out with the payment, I moved in and paid rent every month. He did not keep up on the payments, he spent the money on everything but the mortgage payment. While I was in the process of negotiations with the broker and mortgage company I found out that the house was going through foreclosure. The bank would not budge on their asking price. I was concerned that I would not be able to come to an agreed upon price for the house, the place would be foreclosed on and I would be out of a place to live so I looked around for other places to buy because it did not look like anything was going to happen with this deal. I found a place that was almost the same as my friend’s place. There was no negotiation with this house. It was nearby and had the most of same things that I was looking for in a house, some things were even nicer than my current place. The market was good, interest rates down, and I made an offer that they accepted. I told my friend and he immediately became mad at me because he said that I had agreed to buy his house and that would keep him from destroying his credit. He became really upset with me and our 15+ year friendship was on the rocks. He decided that he did not even want me around and stopped emailing me and did not call me anymore. He did not invite me to his son’s christening, his son and daughter are my God children!

I am very worked up about this. We have mutual friends and have been friends for a long time. I was only trying to help out a friend but when things were not looking promising, I had to take advantage of the market and what was in front of me.

Do you think that I am wrong to consider this person my friend when he won’t even allow me at his home or children’s events because I did not buy his house?

How can I communicate with him without apologizing? I don’t feel that I did anything wrong.

He keeps saying that we were supposed to be friends and that he can’t understand how I could go and buy something else when he is a friend and going through a hard time. He has a huge house, beautifully furnished, three kids, new cars, toys, trips. He cannot afford the second house because he does not take care of his current financial obligations before taking on luxuries. I just feel that the blame is being placed squarely on my shoulders when I am just a tiny fraction of the entire equation? Am I wrong?

I just want to know what to email him without apologizing. I am not sorry that I was taking care of myself and my family first.
Thanks,
Sandford

What type questions should I ask to someone that I’m emailing who lives in another county. Also what should I tell her about my self.

She is married and is emailing me on daily basis. She wanted me to call her direct line, but, I told her you’re married and I was comfortable using email as a forum to talk.

Ok, well I want to start emailing my class friends, but I don’t want to seem awkward to just start emailing them when I don’t really have anything to say!

Any help on what to do?!